About the song
“Breaking Up Is Hard to Do” by Neil Sedaka is one of the quintessential pop songs of the early 1960s, showcasing Sedaka’s ability to craft infectious melodies with heartfelt lyrics. Released in 1962, the song was co-written by Sedaka and his frequent collaborator, Howard Greenfield, who also helped pen many of his earlier hits. “Breaking Up Is Hard to Do” became Sedaka’s signature song, reflecting both the innocence and emotional turbulence of teenage love.
The song’s upbeat, doo-wop-inspired rhythm contrasts with its theme of heartbreak, creating a unique blend of sadness wrapped in an irresistibly catchy package. Sedaka’s smooth, tenor voice delivers the simple yet poignant lyrics about the pain of a relationship ending, making the song relatable to a wide audience. Its catchy refrain, “Down doobie doo down down,” quickly became a pop culture staple, ensuring the song’s widespread appeal.
“Breaking Up Is Hard to Do” reached No. 1 on the Billboard Hot 100 in August 1962, making Sedaka a household name and solidifying his place in the pantheon of early rock and pop stars. The song also charted in several countries, including the UK, where it reached No. 7. Sedaka later re-recorded the song in 1975 as a slow ballad, which also became a hit, proving the timelessness of its message and melody.
Included on the album Neil Sedaka Sings His Greatest Hits, this song remains one of Sedaka’s most beloved tracks. Its lasting popularity has led to numerous covers by other artists over the decades. With its blend of lightheartedness and emotional depth, “Breaking Up Is Hard to Do” continues to resonate with listeners, evoking the bittersweet feelings that come with young love and heartache.